What does “Truth Begins Within” really mean?
We spend a lot of time thinking about telling the truth to others.
But the real work?
It's being honest with ourselves.
Noticing the lies that we tell ourselves.
The ones that sound like hope, responsibility, or “being realistic” - but underneath, they're keeping us stuck.
Here are a few greatest hits women tell themselves:
This time, it'll finally stick.
Once I hit that next goal, then I can slow down.
I deserve this glass after the day I've had.
Maybe it’s not perfect, but it’s better than being alone.
When I finally lose the weight, I'll finally feel good about myself.
Sound familiar?
Every one of these is a way we smooth over the truth because the truth feels too heavy to hold.
I know, I’ve done it too.
The longer we pretend, the harder it gets to live in a way that feels good. That feels real.
Radical honesty with ourselves doesn’t fix everything overnight.
But it changes the ground we’re standing on.
Here’s one way to start:
It’s called the "Truth is..." exercise.
Take whatever you're wrestling with and finish the sentence:
Truth is... and say what you already know deep down.
Truth is... and peel back another layer.
Truth is... and get even closer to what's real.
At first, the lies don’t even sound like lies.
They sound like plans. Like being practical.
But if you listen closely, you can hear the cracks.
Here’s how it looks when you start getting honest:
"Once I hit that next goal, then I can slow down." becomes:
Truth is, I’ve been chasing “one more thing” for years.
Truth is, I don't know who I am when I'm not pushing.
Truth is, learning how to slow down feels unsettling and I avoid it.
Truth-telling isn’t about fixing yourself.
It’s not judgmental.
It’s just clear.
And clarity is powerful.
Truth begins within means getting honest: raw, uncomfortable sometimes, but truthful - with ourselves first.
Not pretending.
Not performing.
Just standing in ourselves as we truly are.
It’s where everything good starts.